After pressing "Cancel" in "Relink..." dialog, the item is no longer selected in the Links panel
1. InDesign 13.1 x64, WIndows 10
2. Select an image on the page, and it is highlighted in the links panel. Press "Relink...". Press "Cancel".
3. The link should be highlighted in the links palette so I could press "Relink..." again immediately
4. The frame is still selected but the image is no longer highlighted in the Links panel. You have to deselect the frame and re-select it (or manually click the link in the panel) to highlight it again.