InDesign 13.1.1

I'm not sure what is going on but it's been happening for a while now. The only way I've been able to fix it has been to trash my preferences. Unfortunately even that doesn't last long, sometimes as short as a day.

I make a lot of paragraph and character shortcuts for my projects. Each has it's own set of fonts so although I use the same shortcuts each are attached to different fonts so when I jump into a project I need to be able to see the shortcuts in the panel to remember which to use. For the past few years they keep disappearing from my panel even through the are still attached to the style. I cant figure out what is causing this to happen and I'm getting tired of trashing prefs every day just to be able to see my own styles. I could switch over to a newer indesign version but that requires purchasing a new version/subscription of my font application which I don't think is necessary for this issue. At this time my Character style is working right and displaying the commands for the styles I have setup While paragraph has 13 shortcuts missing.